Is That Shame I see?
Look at me when I speak to you. I mean that. We have known one another long enough by now that you understand fully you are in a safe space. NOTHING you could do OR say will ever change how I feel about you.
Countless hours I’ve devoted myself to you and you to me. So why now all of a sudden are you feeling so much shame for being who you are?
OH, You let her rip you apart for the feelings you have?
Understand one thing… Society has taught us that a man “should be” a certain way. Therefor a certain amount of shame is normal. Given the proper set of circumstances you should feel nurtured to grow in your desire and yes, that even includes humiliation fetishes as well. I don’t give a damn who you are and how much you like being treated like a pet, animal, spanked, fucked, sucked etc. I mean that was a very brief description on a VERY Broad horizon.
YOU deserve to be treated with respect and if the person handling you EVER makes you feel a certain type of way STOP dealing with them. The group of Ladies I’ve associated myself with (and for GOOD Reason) are responsible enough to know when they are/or not equipped to handle certain types of situations and are perfectly FINE with saying so to you. We are okay with gracefully saying to you that this type of idea or concept is not for us.
Having said that, do NOT think that because I or one of the people I may refer you to has said this is/isn’t for me is judging you or talking about you behind your back. HELL no. That’s NOT what we do.
We simply want what’s best for you.
Nothing pisses me off more than to hear a sub who feels shame for his desire to be controlled. I just don’t understand why a Lady would automatically assume you are a piece of shit because you want her to control your orgasm. As a matter of fact it’s the other way around. She should feel pretty fucking good about herself that you even chose her in the first place. I mean you have so many choices out there these days.
Hey Boys… Thanks For Being Mine, We’ll talk soon!