What would you be willing to do?
What would you be willing to give up in order to make your submissive dreams come true? What would you be willing to do, in order to get a chance to be at my feet? What would you be willing to endure to make Mistress smile and happy? Those are the first questions you need to ask yourself and those answers need to be honest.
Don’t just tell me what you think I want to hear.
I can see through the BS instantly. Remember I have been a Mistress for a very long time now, and have dealt with countless boys who only talked the talk, but had no idea what it means to walk the walk.
If you claim you want to be a submissive, you need to understand what that actually means. Don’t confuse being a fetish boy with being a submissive man.
There are worlds in between.
Serving a Mistress is an honor and you have to need to be under her control, be of use to her, not used by her. Not just when your dick is stiff, but at all times in as many different non-sexual ways that she desires as well. It’s really not about your cock, but about the obedience you give, the power you surrender to her, and the willingness to bend your will to hers.
I keep telling you about having to leave your Ego at the door, but you seem to keep missing that part. An arrogant boy, will never make a good submissive, and darlings I deserve nothing but the best. No that is not arrogance or even entitlement, that is knowing my own self worth and what I should be able to expect. I will not play tug-o-war with some male who thinks it is all about him, what he wants, what gets him off and I am supposed to play the Puppet to his desires. That is nothing but a turn off to me.
Of course both sides need to be happy.
Mistress and sub are the ying and yang of the whole, but that is why I am so selective in who I accept into my stable of submissive pets. We have to match. It’s symbiotic in the end, one side naturally feeding the needs and desires of the other, but that cannot happen if you are not honest with yourself first and honest in what you tell me.
I am not scolding you here, I am not one bit mad. Actually I am telling you all of this because I want to tell you that it is ok to be yourself. Needing what you need, and embracing your deeply submissive core. Of course it is necessary to know who you are first, and have the courage to speak up in a humble (not fake humility either please, that gets boring and annoying really fast) way. To be willing to embrace your need to be guided and controlled in a safe, sane, and consensual way.
It really starts with you knowing yourself.
Also with you admitting to yourself who you are, and what it is you are willing to explore, surrender to me, and be of use to me in. See the questions at the beginning at my missive to you today, and really examine your heart and mind. Then approach me, your potential Mistress, correctly and with absolute honesty. That is where it begins…
Talk Soon Naughty One,